Collaborative Communications Skills

Taking the War Out of Our Words, Sharon Strand Ellison, 2007

For Children

Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families, Marc Brown, 1986

Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids: Feeling at Home in One Home or Two, Isolina Ricci, PhD, Fireside, 2006

For Parents

Hold Onto Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More than Peers, Gordon Neufeld, PhD, Gabor Mate, MD, Ballantine Books, 2006 (paperback)

Parenting from the Inside Out, Daniel J. Siegel, MD, Mary Hartzell, MEd, Jeremy P. Tarcher, Penguin, 2003

Taking Power Struggle Out of Parenting: The Art of Powerful, Non-Defensive Communication, Sharon Strand Ellison, Audible Audio book, Wyatt-MacKenzie (May 24, 2010)

The Good Divorce: Keeping Your Family Together When Your Marriage Falls Apart, Constance Ahrons, 1995

Trauma-Proofing Your Kids: A Parents' Guide for Instilling Confidence, Joy and Resilience, Peter A. Levine, Maggie Kline, North Atlantic Books, 2008

We're Still Family: What Grown Children Have to Say about Their Parents' Divorce, Constance R. Ahrons, Harper Collins, 2005

Collaborative Divorce, Collaborative Practice

Collaborative Practice: Deepening the Dialogue, Nancy J. Cameron, QC, The Continuing Legal Education Society of British Columbia, 2004

Collaborative Divorce Handbook: Helping Families without Going to Court, Forrest S. Mosten, John Wiley & Sons, 2009

Collaborative Divorce: A New Paradigm, Pauline Tesler, JD, Peggy Thompson, Ph.D., Harper Collins, Kindle edition

The Collaborative Way to Divorce: The Revolutionary Method That Results in Less Stress, Lower Costs, and Happier Kids--Without Going to Court, Stuart G. Webb, Ronald D. Ousky, Hudson Street Press, 2006

Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with Your Life, Pauline Tesler, JD, and Peggy Thompson, PhD, Harper Collins, 2006

Divorce: A Problem to Solved, Not a Battle to Be Fought, Fagerstrom, Karen, PhD, with Diana A. Wilde, Peggy Thompson, PhD, Rodney Nurse, PhD, ABPP, Milton Kalish, LCSW, Nancy J. Ross, LCSW, Thomas Wolfrum, JD

Divorce without Court: A Guide to Mediation & Collaborative Divorce, Katherine Stoner, Attorney-Mediator, Katherine E. Stoner, 2009

Collaborative Law, Settlement Counsel

Collaborative Law, Second Edition: Achieving Effective Resolution Without Litigation, Pauline H. Tesler, JD, 2009

Avoiding Litigation: A Guide to Civil Collaborative Law, Sherrie R. Abney, Trafford Publishing, 2005

The New Lawyer: How Settlement is Transforming the Practice of Law, Julie MacFarlane, 2008

Collaborative Negotiation

Beyond Neutrality, Confronting the Crisis in Conflict Resolution, Bernard S. Mayer, John Wiley & Sons, 2004

Getting Disputes Resolved: Designing Systems to Cut the Costs of Conflict, William Ury, Jeanne M. Brett, Stephen B. Goldberg, Jossey-Bass, 1988,

Getting to Peace: Transforming Conflict at Home, at Work, and in the World, William L. Ury, 1999

Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement without Giving In, Roger Fisher, William L. Ury, 2d Ed., Penguin Books, 1991

Getting Past No: Negotiating in Difficult Situations, William Ury, Bantam, 1993

Staying with Conflict: A Strategic Approach to Ongoing Disputes, Bernard S. Mayer, John Wiley & Sons, 2009

The Dynamics of Conflict Resolution: A Practitioners Guide, Bernard Mayer, Bernard S. Mayer, Jossey-Bass, 2000

The Power of a Positive No: Save the Deal, Save the Relationship and Still Say No, William Ury, Bantam Dell, 2007

The Third Side: Why We Fight and How We Can Stop, William L. Ury, Penguin, 2000

Interest & Needs Based Mediation

A Guide to Divorce Mediation: How to Reach a Fair, Legal Settlement at a Fraction of the Cost, Gary J. Friedman, JD, 1993

Challenging Conflict: Mediation through Understanding, Gary J. Friedman, JD & Jack Himmelstein, JD, 2009, (Paperback)

The Path to Healing, Children and Trauma

Child Abuse Trauma: Theory and Treatment of the Lasting Effects (Interpersonal Violence:The Practice Series), Dr. John Briere, Sage Publications, 1992

Forgiveness is a Choice: A Step-by-Step Process for Resolving Anger and Restoring Hope, Robert D. Enright, Ph.D., (APA Lifetools), 2001

Healing Trauma: A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of Your Body, Peter A. Levine, Sounds True, 2008

Helping Abused and Traumatized Children: Integrating Directive and Nondirective Approaches, Eliana Gil, PhD, John Briere, PhD (Foreword) The Guilford Press, 2006

Helping Clients Forgive: An Empirical Guide for Resolving Anger and Restoring Hope, Robert D. Enright, Richard P. Fitzgibbons, American Psychological Association, 2000

In an Unspoken Voice: How the Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness, Peter A. Levine, PhD, Gabor Mate, MD, North Atlantic Books, 2010

In the Name of the Child: A Developmental Approach to Understanding and Helping Children of Conflicted and Violent Divorce, Janet R. Johnston, PhD, Vivienne Roseby, PhD, The Free Press, 1997

Healing Trauma: Attachment, Mind, Body & Brain, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, Gabor Mate, MD, Peter A. Levine, Ph.D., (Foreword), North Atlantic Books, 2010

Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation, Daniel J. Siegel, Mind Your Brain, 2010

Principals of Trauma Therapy: A Guide to Symptoms, Evaluation and Treatment, Dr. John Briere, Catherine Scott, Sage Publications, 2006

Rising Above the Storm Clouds: What it is Like to Forgive, Robert D. Enright, Kathryn Kunz Finney, 2004

The Mindful Therapist: A Clinician's Guide to Mindsight and Neural Integration, Daniel Siegel, MD, (Norton Series on Interpersonal Biology), Mind Your Brain, 2010

Therapy for Adults Molested As Children: Beyond Survival, Dr. John Briere, PhD, Second Edition, Springer Publishing Co., 1996

Trauma through a Child's Eyes: Awakening the Ordinary Miracle of Healing, Infancy through Adolescence, Peter A. Levine, PhD, Maggie Kline, 2006

Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma: The Innate Capacity to Transform Overwhelming Experiences, Peter A. Levine, North Atlantic Books, 1997

Mind-Body Wellness, Neuroscience of Emotion, Brain Plasticity, Neuroplasticity

A General Theory of Love, Thomas Lewis, MD, Fari Amini, MD, Richard Lannon, MD, Vintage, 2000

Change Your Brain, Change Your Body: Use Your Brain to Get and Keep the Body You Always Wanted, Daniel G. Amen, MD, Harmony Books, 2010

Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: A Breakthrough Program for Conquering Anxiety, Depressions, Obsessiveness, Anger, and Implusiveness, Daniel G. Amen, MD, New Rivers Press, 1998

Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ, 10th Anniversary Edition, Daniel Goleman, Bantam Dell, 2006

Healing Anxiety and Depression, Daniel G. Amen, MD, Lisa J. Routh, MD, Penguin Books, 2004

Magnificent Mind at Any Age: Natural Ways to Unleash the Brain's Potential, Daniel G. Amen, MD, Harmony Books, 2008

Move Into Life: The Nine Essentials for Lifelong Vitality, Anat Baniel, MS, Harmony Books, 2009

The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are, Daniel J. Siegel, MD, The Guilford Press, 1999

The Healing Power of Emotion: Affective Neuroscience, Development & Clinical Practice, (Norton Series on Interpersonal Biology), Diana Fosha, Daniel J. Siegel, MD, Marion F. Solomon (Editors), Mind Your Brain, Inc., Marion F. Solomon, 2009

The Mindful Brain: Reflection and Attunement in the Cultivation of Well-Being, Daniel J. Siegel, MD, Mind Your Brain, 2007